Let’s Discuss: The Language of Flowers

The power of the flower is strong, indeed! In an interview included at the end of the novel, author Vanessa Diffenbaugh relates the findings from a Rutgers University study that proves flowers increase feelings of enjoyment and satisfaction. Research from Harvard found that people feel less anxious and more compassionate when surrounded by flowers. I don’t think any of these findings are particularly surprising, but my question is, did you find enjoyment and satisfaction from reading about these lovely flowers and the magic they hold within their petals? I know I did. The Language of Flowers has been one of my favorite reads in a long time and I most definitely have a new appreciation for all that grows in my garden. What was your experience like? What discoveries and realizations did you make while reading the novel? Below are some questions to spark a discussion…so leave your thoughts in the comment section below!

photo by Leah Bergman

1. How did you feel about Victoria as a character? Did her resistance to love and happiness frustrate you or did you feel like you understood her complexity?
2. The book alternates between chapters that are set in the past and the present. How do you feel about this type of structure?
3. Some of the novel’s themes include love, family, forgiveness, and second chances. Which stood out as being key to you? What lessons were you able to gather from it?
4. Immense challenges and overwhelming emotions arise when Victoria has her baby. How does becoming a mother ultimately change Victoria?
5. Did the novel open your eyes to some of the realities of the foster care system? How?
Note: Check out Vanessa Diffenbaugh’s non-profit organization, Camellia Network, that supports young people transitioning out of the foster care system. It’s quite compelling and such a beautiful cause.
6. Did you investigate the meanings of some of your favorite flowers? Were you disappointed to find out the negative definitions of some of the most lovely? If you created a bouquet, what would it “say” and to whom would you give it?

You still have time to finish up the novel before the next one is announced next week! So enjoy these last warm days of early fall and prepare to cozy up with our thrilling pick for October.